Summer Not Going As Planned? Let's Rework the Calendar

Summer often starts with big dreams: lazy mornings, easygoing days, lots of laughs, and family time that feels effortless. But somewhere along the way, those peaceful plans can get tangled up in snack messes, nonstop running around, and the all-too-familiar “I’m bored!” chorus.

If your summer feels more hectic than hoped, don’t worry, you’re definitely not alone. And the best part? It’s never too late to take a step back, reset, and find your calm again.

Let’s explore some simple, family-friendly ways to rethink your calendar, reconnect with your loved ones and reset with a little peace of mind.

Call a Family “Reset Meeting”

Bring everyone together (yes, even the grumpy tween!). Ask: What’s working? What’s not? What do we still want to do this summer? You might be surprised by what comes up, maybe it’s more movie nights, fewer activities, or just one simple camping trip.

Tip: Have each person add their requests to the calendar using our Circle Sticky Notes. Easy to move around and adjust as needed.

Simplify Your Expectations

You don’t have to check every summer box to make it meaningful. Maybe your grand trip got canceled, a summer camp was more exhaustive (or not) than you realized, but that doesn’t mean summer’s a wash. A weekend picnic, an impromptu ice cream run, or a backyard water balloon fight can still be core memories.

Try This: Use our Washi Tape to highlight low-key, fun family days right on your calendar, so they don’t get lost in the shuffle.

Make Space for the Messy Days

Not every day will be perfect, and that’s okay. Instead of scrapping the whole week when plans shift, leave some margin for rest, spontaneity, or quiet time. A "do nothing day" might be just what your family needs.

Encouragement: Add cheerful reminders like “Keep it simple” or “Just breathe.” Small visual cues go a long way.

Bring Back Connection, Without the Screens

When the days get hectic, connection often takes a backseat. Build back togetherness with small, repeatable rituals, think Sunday pancake breakfasts, evening walks, or nightly gratitude check-ins.

Bonus Idea: Let each family member pick one night to plan a family activity for the week.

Focus on What Matters Most

At the end of the day, the goal isn’t a perfect summer. It’s a connected one. A summer where your family feels seen, supported, and at home, even if you never made it to that museum or missed the last day of soccer camp.

It’s Not Too Late to Rework Summer

Whether your summer is full to the brim or slower than expected, there’s still time to make it meaningful. The goal isn’t perfection, it’s presence. A season where your family feels connected, grounded, and just a little more at ease.

You don’t need a brand new calendar to find that rhythm again. Just a few flexible tools, a reset mindset, and the willingness to adjust the plan.

You’ve got this, and we’re cheering you on every step of the way.